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Home Decor: I’m obsessed with closet rooms

I have a confession, I am officially obsessed with closet rooms. “What is a closet room?” you may be thinking. Well, allow me to explain. A closet room is a bedroom that has been transformed into a closet. Closet rooms can be so complex and personalized and for that reason I have fallen in love with them.

I’ve always been very keen on organization and closet rooms allow you to organize your belongings in a way that best suits your wardrobe. In my case, shoes would be a focal point in my ideal closet space. I love the idea of using a bookcase to display my collection of footwear. That way, I’ll be able to wear more of my shoes as opposed to them being hidden in boxes all the time. In addition, I’d use my room as an office space and an area to let my creative juices flow.

My significant other and I move into a new home next month so hopefully I’ll be able to convince him to get on board with this closet room fantasy of mine. If not, we’re about to have the most jam-packed master closet in the world. If I do end up sharing a closet, I’ll make the best of it and organize it the best I can.

If your closet is spacious enough chances are your desire for a closet room won’t be as strong as mine. But as of right now, honey, my obsession shall continue…

Here are a few of the fabulous closet rooms I’ve seen online:


Closet Room/Office

If you could have a closet room how would you design it? 

Coming Soon…


I hope all is well with you. I’m super busy over here in this life of mine. This site has been neglected yet again. I’ve been debating within my head the direction I want to take with this particular blog. You may or may not know that I manage a completely different type of blog on Tumblr, NaturalHair. It’s a blog that I started a few years ago that is a go-to for natural hair care tips, inspiration and more. I love the amount of people I’m able to reach on that blog and the interest in natural hair in general is astounding. However, I’m a person with a wide range of interests.

I like so many things that I’ve felt the need to pursue these interests at different times and in different places. For once and for all, I want to do it all. And in one place. will be that place, I just need to make it that way. In my dream world, I’ll get this site designed to align with my personality which is pretty much all over the place.

 My interests include: 

  • Public Relations/ Brand Building
  • Hair
  • Makeup/ Beauty
  • Music/ Entertainment
  • Current Events
  • Home Decor/ Interior Design
  • Education
  • Fashion/ Shopping

With my broad range of interests, I will do my best to create interesting and consistent content. I am grateful that you’ve decided to follow me on this journey and I encourage you to tell a friend because we’re just getting started.

Until next time,

Alexandria B.


What’s your most marketable skill?

Starting a new job is a scary yet exciting experience. I remember being a senior in undergraduate school and I could not be told that my dream job wasn’t within reach. I mean, I had an internship at a major news station and had been awarded two scholarships within a year’s timeframe. I thought I was hot stuff and that any employer would be lucky to acquire me. A year post graduation, I found myself at the same job I’d had for several years even though I applied to over 30 jobs. Sure, I received a small promotion, but it was nowhere near what I thought I wanted to pursue as a career.

You may be wondering what I did next… I didn’t give up, that’s for sure. I ended up applying for jobs in another state and that’s when I finally got the opportunity to utilize my skills in a new, more exciting position. Throughout my job hunt I made sure my résumé reflected my most marketable skills. And depending upon what field you’re looking to enter, your “marketable skills” may be a little different from mine. Marketable skills include, but definitely aren’t limited to; typing, video editing, social media management, and being proficient in Microsoft Office.

In my opinion, being proactive and eager to learn in the most valuable, marketable skill in today’s competitive job market.

Employers shouldn’t expect a new graduate to instantly be a know-it-all, but they should appreciate a new employee who is enthusiastic about learning. This type of employee is more likely to be innovative and add value to the organization. So how can you showcase this skill in order to be considered a prime candidate by the employer of your dreams? It’s simple, seek knowledge. Find ways to educate yourself and remain up-to-date on developments within your field. Subscribe to related newsletters or magazines, read the latest research, enroll in a new class, or join a professional organization. These actions can show an employer that you’re not just looking for a random job, instead you’re passionate about the field you’re attempting to break into.

If you’re interested in some free professional development, you should consider checking out Webucator. The site currently provides Microsoft Office training and since proficiency in this operating system is pretty much a necessity for the modern worker, I’d suggest you capitalize on this exciting opportunity. 

What do you think is the most marketable skill in today’s job market?



Fashion Friday: Splurging on Luxury Items

Have you ever lusted after a fashion item you knew you couldn’t afford? I’m currently struggling with the decision to purchase a pair (or two) of Christian Louboutin’s “So Kate” patent leather pumps. They’re just so beautiful and the more I look at them, the more I realize I need them.

So what’s the issue? Do I have the money to buy these shoes? Yes. But can I afford them? No. Instead of paying $675 for a pair of pumps, I could make an extra two payments on my car or put the money toward student loan payments. Seeing as though I have other bills and obligations, I don’t think I should have the right to splurge at this point in my life. But is this a healthy way of thinking? You know what they say…

“You only live once.”

“Don’t cheat yourself, treat yourself.” 

So Kate So Kate (Black)


I currently have one pair of Louboutin’s I received as a birthday gift a few years ago and I’ve worn them less than five times. I don’t always feel comfortable wearing them because I don’t have a Christian Louboutin lifestyle, in my opinion. As a school teacher, I’m not going to wear them around a bunch of 11-year-old children. I suppose I could wear them on dinner dates, but my significant other and I tend to be rather casual when we go out.

This leads me to a discussion question. Would you or do you splurge on luxury items? Why or why not?


Fashion Friday: Money-saving shopping tips

This summer I’ve been addicted to online shopping. I’ve purchased swimsuits, dresses and plenty of shoes. To be honest, I’ve purchased more than I need, but luckily I can say that I have not overspent. Why? Because I am a coupon using, sale-seeking shopaholic, one who doesn’t believe in paying full price for anything. I’ve seriously purchased pumps that were originally over $100 for less than $30 and instances like this make me a self-proclaimed budget shopping expert. As an expert, I have a few tips to help you save money while shopping online and in stores:

Set a budget and stick to it. I’d love to be a person with an infinite amount of money for shopping, but since that’s not the case, I’ve mastered the art of setting a budget before shopping. A good way to make sure you stay on budget is by bringing cash to spend as opposed to relying on using credit or debit cards.

Create a wish list. It’s easy to get caught up in trends and want to buy what’s “hot” so I’d suggest planning ahead and making a list of your must-have items. This way you’re more likely not to go over budget by freestyle shopping and buying random items.

When online shopping, don’t start by viewing items that are new in stock. As I mentioned earlier, I don’t believe in buying full price items. When I do, I almost always have buyer’s remorse. The trick is to look up sale items and sort them by their price (low to high). This helps you spot all the lower priced items first and hopefully you’ll fall in love with some of those.  

Find coupons and/or shop during sales and promotions. I am a fan of coupons and many stores offer pretty great deals. Macy’s, for example, offers a $10 off coupon seemingly every week. Other department stores provide similar deals, you simply have to look for them. Try signing up for emails from your favorite stores and you’ll be the first to hear about promotions they offer. Don’t sign up for too many because your inbox can fill up rather quickly. 

Are there any tips that you have for saving money while shopping? If so, feel free to share them below…


Music Monday: “Rude”

Happy Monday!

You know when I committed to doing two posts per week, I had forgotten that I was going on vacation. Well, I visited the Dominican Republic for a well-deserved break and now it’s back to reality. Luckily I still have another few weeks before real, full-time work begins but I still have so much to do in preparation for it.

For today’s Music Monday, I have a quick anecdote to share. In early July as I was driving from Louisiana to Houston, I kept switching radio stations since it seemed like each one I chose began to have static after 20 minutes or so. In the five hour drive I heard this really catchy song at least eight times and I fell in love with it.

When I made it home, I found myself wanting to hear more of the song, but I technically didn’t know what it was called. I googled “I’m gonna marry her anyway song” and it popped up. I wasn’t surprised to see that it had garnered over 50 million YouTube views.

It turns out the mystery song is called “Rude” by MAGIC!, a reggae fusion band from Canada. Check  it out below:

What do you think of my current addiction? Isn’t it amazing? I’ve found plenty of interesting covers of the song all over the internet including this one by Vonzell Solomon, the former American Idol contestant who put a comedic twist on the already fun song. 

That’s all for this week’s Music Monday. If you’re currently obsessed with a song, be sure to let me know which one it is in the comments section.

Have Internet Challenges Gone Too Far?

For me, the internet is a magical place. One where I can learn to cook just about anything, prepare for job interviews, study, connect with people from all over the world, and so much more. The world wide web is also a place where sensational videos are posted and can spread like wildfire. We’ve all seen the infamous Sweet Brown news report which was followed by a successful autotune remix video. Millions of people found that intriguing and the bronchitis-having woman found time to make national news all while making us laugh.

Simply put, we live in a time where viral videos can catapult people to fame. Somewhere along the way someone decided to make a video doing something abnormal and challenged others to do it as well. The first video of this nature I recall seeing is the cinnamon challenge and over the past few years, these internet challenges and dares have become even more intense and extremely popular amongst internet users looking for laughs. Check out the video below of a YouTube user completing several challenges, many of which he acknowledges are unsafe and suggests viewers not try at home. 

As you can see, this man not only puts salt and ice on tongue to create a burn, but he sets his hand on fire with hand sanitizer (others have set other parts of their bodies on fire), sticks a noodle up his nose, and even mentions a “condom challenge” he has performed before. With this video gaining over 200,000 views, it’s no surprise that others would decide to make similar videos.

It seems like people these days are motivated by likes and views so they’ll post the most ridiculous content. This morning I saw a really disturbing video on Facebook documenting a “hot water challenge” and that’s what prompted this post. The young girl likely heard of this challenge online and decided to put her own spin on things when she boiled a pot of water and flung it on her brother as a joke. Check out the video below:

Not only is it sad that this young lady didn’t realize hot water and boiling water drastically differ in temperature, but her brother will have that burn on his back for a very long time. This vicious attack was intended to be a fun prank and that’s why I ask if internet challenges have gone too far? The general public will like, share and laugh at these videos inspiring more and more people to take part in them. Whether it’s the snow challenge where nearly naked people go lay in snow while having a friend record it or the banana and sprite challenge that does God knows what to your stomach, I say enough is enough. It’s up to us as a general public to decide what content goes viral by being more selective in what we share and find funny. 

I have a new challenge. I challenge you to be mindful of what you post, share, and find funny on the internet. If you see someone doing something unsafe or unwise, try letting them know as opposed to increasing their popularity by sharing it with your network. 

What are your thoughts about internet challenges? Have they gone too far?